Maybe she'll want to have sex someday. Uneviable situation all the way around. And all marriages will be individual, and the reasons any person will have for giving up on sex will be personal, contextually specific and will have accumulated for a long time. For a while, I was concerned my daughter might think she has to be a lesbian, because I am. Newsletters Sign up for the latest news and to win free tickets to events. This isn't fair to them. It was a shock to my husband, that it wasn't enough for me.
If your buddy isn't in a similar situation, then he is cheating. I was angry he'd put me through all that heartache, but I understood why he didn't tell me sooner. I thought it would help, but I regretted it afterwards because she was quite upset and shocked. Learn the best ways to manage stress and negativity in your life. He wasn't exactly a manly man. It would seem he allows her to believe that he goes along to the therapist to get assurance that his gay urges are normal, or to be relieved of his urges or latent homosexuality.